Understanding Your Child’s Behavior: A Parent’s Guide to Behavior Functions

At Empower Autism Omaha, we believe that understanding why behaviors occur is the first step to meaningful progress. Many parents come to us feeling frustrated or unsure about their child’s challenging behaviors. The good news? Every behavior serves a purpose, and when we uncover its “why,” we can make real, positive changes.

What Are Behavior Functions?

In ABA therapy, we focus on the four main reasons—or functions—behind behavior:

  1. Escape: Your child may be trying to avoid or get away from a task, demand, or situation they find difficult or unpleasant.
  2. Attention: Some behaviors aim to gain attention from parents, siblings, or peers, even if it’s negative attention.
  3. Access to Tangibles: Sometimes, a child engages in a behavior to get something they want, like a toy, snack, or activity.
  4. Sensory Stimulation: Certain behaviors happen because they feel good or help regulate emotions (like rocking or hand-flapping).

Why Does This Matter?

By understanding what drives your child’s behavior, we can replace challenging behaviors with positive, functional ones that meet the same needs. For example:

  • If a child throws tantrums to avoid homework, we teach them to request a break.
  • If they act out for attention, we help them learn to ask for interaction appropriately.

How Can Parents Help?

Here are a few ways to start identifying behavior functions at home:

  • Observe: Pay attention to what happens before, during, and after a behavior. What might your child be trying to communicate?
  • Stay Neutral: Avoid reacting emotionally to challenging behaviors. This keeps the focus on understanding rather than escalating the situation.
  • Collaborate: Share your observations with your ABA team. Together, we can create a plan that addresses both the behavior and its function.

How Empower Autism Omaha Can Help

Our team specializes in identifying behavior functions and teaching replacement skills that promote growth and independence. By working closely with families, we empower parents to understand their child’s behavior and support progress at home and beyond.

Final Thoughts

Behavior is communication. By viewing it through this lens, we can approach challenges with compassion, patience, and effective strategies. If you’re ready to learn more, reach out to us today. Together, we’ll help your child thrive!